Relationships move. Stay in step.

It's the little things

Strong relationships aren't built in a single moment. They're shaped by the small things we do every day.

• A warm coffee
• A helping hand
• A little note
• A walk together

Cheramor is a quiet, private helper for your relationship. You write privately about what's on your mind, and Cheramor, drawing on relationship research and AI, suggests small, specific things you can do for your partner.

Start on your own and invite your partner when you're ready. Ideas fit your life, whether you live together or apart.

Cheramor isn't therapy and doesn't replace it. When something needs more than everyday care, it points you toward people who can help.

A look inside

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Screens from the app in testing. Sam and Jordan are fictional. Tap a screen to enlarge it.

How Cheramor works

1. Tell us about you

   A short survey about your relationship and what you'd like more of.

2. Write freely

   Your journal and Tell Me Anything are for your own words. Only you can see them; your partner never does.

3. Cheramor analyzes

   AI looks for patterns: what matters to you, what you'd like more of and what's getting in the way. From that reading, Cheramor keeps only those patterns, never a summary of your words.

4. Small ideas for both of you

   Small, specific things to do for your partner, shaped by what matters to you, every day. If you're linked, your partner gets ideas of their own.

5. It gets to know you

   Tell Cheramor whether you tried an idea and how it felt to do, and it adjusts what it suggests next, so ideas fit you better over time. No scores, no streaks.

Built on trust. Designed for privacy.

• Your thoughts stay private

  Your partner never sees your journal, your entries or your survey answers, not in full, not in part, not in other words.

• Ideas, never reports

  When your accounts are linked and you've said yes, what you write may help shape the general ideas your partner receives. It's your choice, and you can change it anytime in Settings. Your partner might still guess now and then, but never sees your words.

  More detail

  Ideas come from Cheramor's own library, never quote you, and are never shown as coming from you. Cheramor also sends ideas just because, so an idea arriving doesn't mean anything was written.

• Work through it together

  Conflict Coach gives you both a way to be heard. Sharing is opt-in: one disagreement at a time, only if you both agree.

  More detail

  Each of you approves a version of your side that Cheramor's AI writes without blame. Your partner sees only that version, never what you typed. It's the only place anything you write is shared.

• No ads, no selling

  We never sell your information, and what you write is never used for advertising. AI helps Cheramor understand what you write, suggest ideas that fit, and recognize when extra support may help.

• You're in control

  Manage your privacy preferences, download a copy of your data, or delete your account in the app's settings at any time.

What's inside

An AI coach for a disagreement that's happening or just happened. Take a breath, understand what hurts, and work out what you want to say.

• On your own

  Think it through in your own private space. Only you can see it.

• Together, if you both agree

  Help hearing each other. You each approve a version of your side, and your partner sees only that version, never what you typed.

Nothing is shared unless you both agree, every time. Agreeing covers one disagreement, and either of you can stop at any time.

Sharing is in early testing, so it isn't in every account yet. If you ever feel unsafe, support is here.

We all have strengths and things we could do better. See how you handle stress, criticism and conflict, and get small ideas to try.

• A 2-minute check-in

  Private, with no right answers. Update your answers or delete them anytime.

• Small ideas for you

  Ideas about your own side of things, like staying calm or listening, mixed in with your usual ones. Turn them off anytime.

• Your partner never sees it

  Not your answers, not your ideas, not even whether you use it. None of it shapes the ideas your partner gets.

Your growth is in early testing. If someone is treating you badly, that isn't something you need to fix in yourself. Support is here.

More for your day

• Insights

  The research behind small moments

  About once a week, the card Cheramor shows you for the day is a short finding from relationship research, with one small thing to try and the study it comes from.

  The same for everyone: Insights never use what you or your partner write, and never arrive as a notification.

• Daily listen

  A few minutes to start your day

  Two to four minutes on one small part of loving someone well, read by an AI voice from a script written for Cheramor. The words are on screen too.

  Picked from the things that matter to you, never from what your partner writes. Never a notification, and you can turn it off anytime.

Insights and Daily listen are in early testing, so they may not be in every account yet.

Not therapy. Help for the in-between.

A great therapist is like a personal trainer or a music teacher. They guide you, push you, and help you see what you can't see on your own. But much of the growth happens in between sessions, in the small choices you make each day.

Cheramor is there for those everyday moments. It works alongside professional support, not in place of it. If you're going through something serious, a licensed therapist is the right next step, and our Resources page can help.

• Support when it matters

  If something you write suggests you need more than everyday care, Cheramor gently points you to people who can help.

Something meaningful is coming