Relationships move. Stay in step.

A private app that suggests small, personal ways to care for your partner, every day.

  • Cheramor's Home screen. A card titled "A little something for you" reads: Leave a short note somewhere they'll find it, one line about something you love about them.
  • The Journal screen, with the line "Only you can see your entries." and two of Sam's past entries.
  • A Conflict Coach session about getting home late. Sam reads the version of their side written without blame, above the line "This is the version Jordan will see." and an Approve button.

It's the little things

Strong relationships aren't built in a single moment. They're shaped by the small things we do every day.

Cheramor is a quiet companion for your relationship. You write privately about what's on your mind, and Cheramor, drawing on relationship research and AI, suggests small, specific things you can do for your partner.

Sometimes it's a kind word. Sometimes it's a thoughtful gesture, a shared experience, or simply being present when it matters.

Love isn't just something you feel. It's something you do. There are no streaks, no scores and no grades for your relationship, and no expectation of getting something back. Trying something is what counts, whatever happens next.

Use Cheramor on your own or invite your partner. If you both use it, you can link your accounts, and each of you keeps your own private space.

Cheramor isn't therapy and doesn't replace it. When something needs more than everyday care, it points you toward people who can help.

How Cheramor works

  1. Tell us about you

    A short survey about your relationship and what you'd like more of.

  2. Write freely

    Your journal and Tell Me Anything are for your own words. Only you can see them; your partner never does.

  3. Cheramor analyzes

    AI looks for patterns: what matters to you, what you'd like more of and what's getting in the way. Only those patterns are kept, never a summary of your words.

  4. Small ideas for both of you

    Small, specific things to do for your partner, shaped by what matters to you, most days or as often as you choose. If you're linked, your partner gets ideas of their own.

  5. It gets to know you

    Tell Cheramor whether you tried an idea and how it felt to do, and it adjusts what it suggests next, so ideas fit you better over time. No scores, no streaks.

Your words stay private.

Survey

Undivided attention

Feeling appreciated

Journal

I miss slow Sundays.

How did it feel to do?

Good

From your partner

quality time

within their sharing choices,
never their words

  • feeling appreciated
  • undivided attention
  • quality time
  • notes feel good ✓

Suggest a short walk together today.

Ask about the best part of their day.

Leave a note where they'll find it. Did you try it? ✓ Yes

An illustration with example ideas.

See how it works

Cheramor's Home screen. A card titled "A little something for you" reads: Leave a short note somewhere they'll find it, one line about something you love about them. Below it, a box to tell Cheramor anything, with the note: Only you can see what you write here.
Your Daily Something: one small, specific idea at a time.
The Journal screen, with the line "Only you can see your entries." and two past entries by Sam: a Tell Me Anything note about missing slow Sunday mornings, and a journal entry about a long walk by the river with Jordan.
Your journal and Tell Me Anything notes are private. Only you can see them.
A Conflict Coach session shared with Jordan. Sam reads the version of their side written without blame, in three parts: what I meant, how it landed for me, and what I can offer, above the line "This is the version Jordan will see." and an Approve button.
In Conflict Coach, you approve the version of your side your partner will see.
The Ideas for Jordan screen. For each of three topics, Sam picks Use it, Ask me first or Keep it private. Below, a list of topics that are always private and never used for Jordan's ideas.
You choose which topics can shape ideas for your partner.

Screens from the app in testing. Sam and Jordan are fictional.

Not a therapist. A daily companion.

  • The years go by in small moments. This is one.

  • Love is something you do, a little at a time.

  • A pause is where your choice lives.

  • Caring enough to try is not a small thing.

A great therapist is like a personal trainer or a music teacher. They guide you, push you, and help you see what you can't see on your own. But much of the growth happens in between sessions, in the small choices you make each day.

Cheramor is there for those everyday moments. It works alongside professional support, not in place of it. If you're going through something serious, a licensed therapist is the right next step, and our Resources page can help.

Built on trust. Designed for privacy.

Something meaningful is coming

Cheramor is in a small private test right now. We're building it with a simple purpose: helping people care for their relationships in small, everyday ways.

Want early access? Email us

Questions? Write to support@cheramor.com.