Relationships move. Stay in step.
A private app that suggests small, personal ways to care for your partner, most days or as often as you choose.
It's the little things
Strong relationships aren't built in a single moment. They're shaped by the small things we do every day.
- A warm coffee
- A helping hand
- A little note
- A walk together
Cheramor is a quiet companion for your relationship. You write privately about what's on your mind, and Cheramor, drawing on relationship research and AI, suggests small, specific things you can do for your partner.
Sometimes it's a kind word. Sometimes it's a thoughtful gesture, a shared experience, or simply being present when it matters.
Love isn't just something you feel. It's something you do. There are no streaks, no scores and no grades for your relationship, and no expectation of getting something back. Trying something is what counts, whatever happens next.
Start on your own and invite your partner when you're ready. If you both use it, you can link your accounts, and each of you keeps your own private space.
Ideas fit your life, whether you live together or apart.
Cheramor isn't therapy and doesn't replace it. When something needs more than everyday care, it points you toward people who can help.
How Cheramor works
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Tell us about you
A short survey about your relationship and what you'd like more of.
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Write freely
Your journal and Tell Me Anything are for your own words. Only you can see them; your partner never does.
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Cheramor analyzes
AI looks for patterns: what matters to you, what you'd like more of and what's getting in the way. Only those patterns are kept, never a summary of your words.
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Small ideas for both of you
Small, specific things to do for your partner, shaped by what matters to you, most days or as often as you choose. If you're linked, your partner gets ideas of their own.
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It gets to know you
Tell Cheramor whether you tried an idea and how it felt to do, and it adjusts what it suggests next, so ideas fit you better over time. No scores, no streaks.
Your words stay private.
Survey
Undivided attention
Feeling appreciated
Journal
I miss slow Sundays.
How did it feel to do?
Good
From your partner
quality time
within their sharing choices,
never their words
- feeling appreciated
- undivided attention
- quality time
- notes feel good ✓
Suggest a short walk together today.
Ask about the best part of their day.
Leave a note where they'll find it. Did you try it? ✓ Yes
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Support when it matters
If something you write suggests you need more than everyday care, Cheramor gently points you to people who can help.
See how it works
Screens from the app in testing. Sam and Jordan are fictional.
Conflict Coach
Help when a fight happens
An AI coach for a disagreement that's happening or just happened. Take a breath, understand what hurts, and work out what you want to say.
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On your own
Think it through in your own private space. Only you can see it.
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Together, if you both agree
Help hearing each other. You each approve a version of your side, and your partner sees only that version, never what you typed.
Nothing is shared unless you both agree, every time. Agreeing covers one disagreement, and either of you can stop at any time.
Sharing is in early testing, so it isn't in every account yet. If you ever feel unsafe, support is here.
Your growth
Grow as a partner, privately
We all have strengths and things we could do better. Take an honest, private look at how you handle stress, criticism and conflict, and get small ideas for how you show up.
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A 2-minute check-in
Private, with no right answers. Update your answers or delete them anytime.
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Small ideas for you
Ideas about your own side of things, like staying calm or listening, mixed in with your usual ones. Turn them off anytime.
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Your partner never sees it
Not your answers, not your ideas, not even whether you use it. None of it shapes the ideas your partner gets.
Your growth is in early testing, so it isn't in every account yet. If someone is treating you badly, that isn't something you need to fix in yourself. Support is here.
Not a therapist. A daily companion.
A great therapist is like a personal trainer or a music teacher. They guide you, push you, and help you see what you can't see on your own. But much of the growth happens in between sessions, in the small choices you make each day.
Cheramor is there for those everyday moments. It works alongside professional support, not in place of it. If you're going through something serious, a licensed therapist is the right next step, and our Resources page can help.
Built on trust. Designed for privacy.
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Your thoughts stay private
Your partner never sees your journal, your entries or your survey answers, not in full, not in part, not in other words.
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Ideas, never reports
When your accounts are linked, what you write may help shape the general ideas your partner receives, but only within the sharing preferences you choose. Ideas come from Cheramor's own library and are never shown as coming from you. Cheramor also sends ideas just because, so an idea arriving gives nothing away.
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Work through it together
Conflict Coach gives you both a way to be heard. Each of you approves a version of your side that Cheramor's AI writes without blame. Your partner sees only that version, never what you typed. Sharing is opt-in: one disagreement at a time, only if you both agree. It's the only place anything you write is shared.
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No ads, no selling
We never sell your information, and what you write is never used for advertising. AI helps Cheramor understand what you write, suggest ideas that fit, and recognize when extra support may help.
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You're in control
Manage your privacy preferences, download a copy of your data, or delete your account in the app's settings at any time.
Something meaningful is coming
Cheramor is in a small private test right now. We're building it with a simple purpose: helping people care for their relationships in small, everyday ways.
Questions? Write to support@cheramor.com.